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Tips in order to keep him only for you

Tips in order to keep him only for you

Tips in order to keep him only for you

You will always try to keep the man you have near you and have the most beautiful relationship ever. Here are some tips which will help you accomplish your dream:

Even if time, cities or fashion change, men will always love to conquer women. It is a born instinct which men don’t want to lose. Let yourself be seduced, spoiled, impressed by your lover. On the other side, you should also decline his invitations, now and then because it will make him want you more.

You should maintain the old friendships and daily activities. Maybe one of the things men hate the most is a woman who stands on the coach waiting for her boyfriend to appear. When he will see that you are becoming dependent of him he will lose any interest in you.

If he likes football, cars or fishing you should respect his wishes. Don’t try to keep him away from his passions because sooner or later he will run from the relationship you have. You wouldn’t like if he would do the same things to you, would you? A solution is to go with him to a football match if he proposes this to you.

Friendship is the one of the most precious things in a relationship. In this case, you should avoid any discussions in contradictory and listen to his problems even if he doesn’t do this usually.

Passion is another important thing in any relationship. You should look always well, even if you are at home. Imagine seducing situations which will incite him, such as doing striptease or a romantic dinner including candles and a good wine. Of course you also need these kinds of surprises in order to be stimulated, isn’t it?

Don’t refuse him in bed even if you are not in the proper mood or you don’t feel well. You shouldn’t lie to him because there is nothing more shameful than a revealed lie. He’d better leave you because of the truth instead of leaving because he discovered you lie.

A very frequent mistake in most of the relationships is to suffocate him with too much love. He needs some space to go out with his friends or just to be alone. When he goes out with his friends you can invite a friend to your place and have fun discussing about fashion, soap operas or cooking recipes.

You shouldn’t treat your lover as your best friend or confident. If you want to talk about your bad moods, about clothes or diets you should call one of your friends. Don’t abandon your friends because they are the only one who will discuss about everything your boyfriend doesn’t like to.

Be careful! Don’t underestimate him in public. What a man hates the most is to be treated as a useless person or as an easy mark. If he says things you don’t agree, tell him what you thing when you are at home, by yourselves. If not, he will end up hating you.



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7 comments for “Tips in order to keep him only for you”

  1. Thank you for sharing this. It’s really helpful for me as we’re are going into some bumps in our relationship :)

    Posted by pumpkienpie | October 2, 2009, 10:06 pm
  2. I have a question….well my boyfriend is the type of guy that doesn’t enjoy communicateing all the time,only when he feels like it but on the other hand I like to tell him what’s wrong but when I feel like telling him I get really nervous and think I shouldn’t tell him…Also my boyfriend can act really rude torwards me and I know I do wrongs as well the main thing I do is get attitudes which his is being a A*swh*le..What should I do to make my relationship healthier?I know we love eachother very much we have been together for 3 years and a half…I really need some advice to keep our relationship together please help!

    Posted by Marina | October 20, 2009, 8:53 pm
  3. if you’ve been together for three years then you shouldn’t feel like you can’t open up to him you need to focus on being honest with each other and telling each other everything you want him to be your boyfriend and your bestfriend not be ashamed of what you want to tell him .

    Posted by madison | November 2, 2009, 11:14 am
  4. i always wish to spend as much time with my boyfrnd if somehow its nt possible i try to keep in touch on phone.bt the prblem is he doesnt wish to talk to me always and state unusual excuses like dont hav balance,feeling sleepy.plz help how can i make him feel that it hurts me and makes me feel lonely.plz help

    Posted by priya | January 16, 2010, 3:05 pm
  5. plz help!!!!we both love each other,everything between us is same as natural romantic couples bt the problem is that my boyfriend fails to express his love and never ever says the three mgical words “I LOVE YOU” though he loves me.how to prick him so that heartly he expresses his love to me,plz give me some tips….i m very much heart broken..

    Posted by priya | January 16, 2010, 3:12 pm
  6. Hey Priya! You haven’t mentioned whether you talked with your boyfriend about this. Did you tell him your needs, your desires? Communication is very important in every relationship so try speeking to him from your heart. Good luck!

    Posted by T4G | January 18, 2010, 7:56 am
  7. v both were very gud in our relation bt by time passes v r getting apart . gv me suggestions hw too get back his love . i dnt want to lose him

    Posted by sapna | August 8, 2010, 2:44 am

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