10 things that frighten men

10 things that frighten men

Many of us consider that black nails and smoky eyes are always sexy. That’s not true. It may happen that things we consider as being attractive to men have the opposite effect to them. Let’s see a list with things that frighten men the most when it comes to girls:

1. “Super” hair
A man who likes caressing your hair with his fingers doesn’t appreciate at all feeling it tangled. Fixative combined with hair extensions may be too much for him. Boys prefer clean, soft hair.

2. Too much make-up
While we are preoccupied in hiding even the smallest imperfection by using make-up, men prefer it natural. Too much make-up will frighten them as they will ask themselves how will you look natural, without all these on your face. My advice: let your skin breathe.

3. Long nails
Imagine holding his hand and scratching him with your nails. Long nails are always scary so a medium nails length and French manicure will look better.

4. Thin eyebrows
Don’t thin your eyebrows too much because they will look funny. Keep them as natural as possible and change as little as possible their shape. Remove only the hairs that are in addition.

5. A weird make-up
Men aren’t always opened to nonconformist make-ups so try to avoid preparing him such surprises. He will surely not appreciate seeing you hidden under a weird make-up.

6. Extra sun-tan
What kind of men appreciates going out with a girl who is too basked in the sun? Avoid artificial tanning methods and be patient: a natural tan is always healthier than any other artificial method.

7. Shinning lips
Some gloss has always a nice effect on a girls’ look but don’t exaggerate. Men usually don’t appreciate lipsticks or any other cosmetic products that are used on lips, especially if they are used in excess. A little gloss should be enough.

8. Extra-perfume
A girl who smells well is always attractive. Things can turn the opposite if you use perfume in extra quantities; it can lead to nausea or headaches and I’m sure you don’t want to have these kinds of effects on men.

9. Invading his intimacy
Every girl wishes being invited to her boyfriend’s apartment, meeting his parents or relatives and, why not, spending as much time as possible at his place. It gives her a feeling of closeness and of extra intimacy, and it can be seen as a proof of commitment. But when you start invading his room with your own things (your personal pillow, your toothbrush and finally clothes) he may feel overwhelmed, menaced and he will suddenly feel the need to run. Men are very sensitive towards their intimate place as I’m sure each of us is.

10. Extravagant clothes
As much as men love sexy women, I’m sure that he won’t appreciate you being dressed up with extravagant clothes. I know you all want to look gorgeous when your boyfriend invites you to a romantic dinner but be careful not to exaggerate. You wouldn’t like him to feel ashamed while hearing other men’s whistling you, would you?

Remember these 10 tips and you will surely avoid any shameful situations.



9 thoughts on “10 things that frighten men

  1. ladies just wear a little lipgloss or chapstick if youre going to kiss him, most guys dont like lipstick because if you makeout theyll have it all over their mouth….

  2. Do guys like red lipstick? like a dark shade of one? ( i have olive skind and dark brown/black hair and eyes ) pls help. thx.

  3. i had nice n beautiful long hair.but thr problem is,when i wear jeans r any modern out fit,i always will be in dilemma regarding how 2 manage my hair.i dont feel comfortable in leaving such a long hair with a small clip.n at the same time i cant tie it as a plint as it does nt suit on modern out fits.n i dint want 2 cut my hair.plz help me in this regard

  4. when i met my boyfrnd i always prefer to be as he likes but not wearing lipsticks makes me fell uncomfortable.wat to do plz help.

  5. Hello K and thank for your comment. I will answer to your amends as simple as possible.

    First of all, this blog is not at all addressed to women who tend to be remarkable only by the way they look. As you have surely observed, this blog contains also tips regarding career as I truly consider that a women is beautiful not only on the exterior but especially through her manner of thinking and of expressing herself. It’s not hard to realize that intelligent men want women who are not only attractive but who have interesting opinions regarding life in it’s intricacy. What we are trying to do here is to help girls and women express themselves with no preconceptions, but by taking always into consideration their own moral believes. I can guarantee you that not all “modern” women have as only desire that to attract men eg: many women nowadays graduate remarkable colleges. Of course, I don’t deny that there are also many women who love being “dolls” in the arms of men, but I remain optimistic and hope that these cases will diminish.

    On the other hand, regarding the words “extravagant clothes” and “weird make-up”- in this article they are used to describe any kind of appearances that may give other the impression that they are dealing with a women who likes being whistled and who’s only purpose is to sexually attract men. This blog is surely not addressed to such women. Hoping that I have cleared up any misunderstandings, I hope hearing new comments from you. Have a nice day!

  6. i don’t think so that curry hair will frighten the man but ugly women definetely do…..

  7. And what comes next, a series of advices on how to be the perfect mother& wife with a little bit of magic Valium?
    Alright, some of these advices refer to the general bad-taste habits (like too much perfume, which can annoy people of both genders). But how do you define extravagant clothing, or ‘weird’ make-up? Where exactly does invading of intimacy begins? If a man (or a woman) sees the presence of their partner as overwhelming, isn’t that a sign that their relationship is based just on shallow social conventions? If a woman’s unique aspiration is to attract a man, regardless of her own personality and ways of expression, yes, such tips should help her.
    All ‘modern’ women’s magazines contain titles as ’10 dating tips’ ‘5 sexy haircuts’ ‘test: is he in love?’ and similar things. Let’s face it: most so-called independent women spend their time trying to attract men, looking and behaving in ways they think men would consider attractive. The women have the impression they are discriminated; that’s not true, it’s themselves that create this situation. Think about that..

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