7 signs that you found the right partner
“Opposites attract” this is why people in search of a partner should start dating someone who is very different from them. In a relationship the equilibrium is very important.
Although this saying is famous, specialist say that it is important in a couple your partner to have a similar background, common values and objectives.
A person could have different qualities from yours, which could make the relationship exciting. Problems may appear when 2 people have too many different characteristics.
Researchers say that more things you have in common with your partner, more you will have a happy couple relationship.
There are 7 signs that you are in the right relationship:
Attitude – you get along well most of the time or he irritates you through his actions? Do you usually think that your partner should be less lazier and should think twice before opening his mouth? You should know that what you see at your partner is what he really is. So don’t try changing his personality. Fins someone who is more like you.
The manner of communicating – Are you a sincere, direct kind of person in saying what you think? In a good relationship you should communicate your needs regularly. If you communicate one to another well you have the chance to have a successful relationship.
Friends and family – You like meeting your family and friends? You easily agree on the time spend with them? If this is a sensitive subject for you, it will finally have a bad effect on your relationship.
Lifestyle (nutrition and sport) – You are vegan, while he likes eating junk food? You like doing exercises on weekend while he likes staying at home and watching a movie? Although food preferences may seem unimportant you should count how many meals you enjoy together. Also, the manner of spending your spare time together should be a subject for analysis. If you don’t get along regarding this subject, you should know that many challenges may appear in your relationship because of this.
Financial aspects – Many people search for partners who can assure their financial stability. But nowadays, taking into consideration the existing crisis, financial security isn’t very common. In this case you should discuss whether you both agree to be more responsible with your money and expenses. Are you both generous people? These problems are simple to be solved if you both have similar financial habits.
Education – Partners who have a similar background regarding education, life and professional experience are more likely to get along well.
Intimacy – There are many aspects included in this category, starting with romantics and the manner of showing of your affection. Partners may have different sexual needs, which can get to resentments and anger in the case of one of the partners. An important thing related to intimacy is that regarding frequency and the manner of expressing yourself in the bedroom.
What can you do if you are not compatible with your partner?
- Accept the things as they are
- Try ameliorating things by taking measures
- Give up the relationship
Specialists also emphasize the fact that the only person who can really change if you. You partner can change only if he really wants this.