Habits that destroy your relationship
You are an incredible girl but you have some habits which make your boyfriend run as far as he can? As normal as they may seem, they represent a threat to your relationship. Let’s discover together some examples.
You want to change him
You may seem to do him a favor but your lover may not think the same. First of all if you consider he’s character isn’t what you want maybe you shouldn’t be with him. Second, he will feel offended because you are against his habits. Getting him accustomed to arrange his clothes in the closet is different from changing his fashion style.
You don’t trust him
You are always checking his phone, personal e-mail and checking his pockets? If he never gave you reasons to doubt him you’d better stop doing this because you aren’t protecting what’s your, but losing him. If you are doing this because he cheated on you, you’d better finish the relationship. The future doesn’t look bright. He will never change.
You no longer take care of yourself as you used to
You have been together for some months now and the relationship seems to have a bright future. This doesn’t mean you should pass up your habits, but on the contrary, find always something new to surprise. Instead of changing your wardrobe because you put on weight, you should buy some sexy outfits and join some yoga classes. Don’t let routine come over you as long as life gives you so much opportunities.
You fight in public
Any fight as bigger as it is can be solved, but in private. Fighting with him when there are your friends or parents near will only embarrass you and the others. They don’t need to find out about your problems, and you shouldn’t look taught in front of them. If your friends witnessed a fight, don’t be surprised by their refuse next time you invite them out.
You don’t give him enough space
He wants to go out with his friends, as boys do, but you don’t agree or worst, you want to go with him. Any man needs some space from time to time, talking to other friends about football or cars, while drinking a beer. If he wants to go out without you doesn’t mean he will cheat on you. Give him credit because a woman confident in herself and in the man next to her is always irresistible.
Do you have some of this “destructive” habits in a relationship? Did they affect you or your relation?