How can we maintain the same relationship as it was at the beginning
Psychologists consider that there are three things that are fundamental in order to be a happy couple: characters compatibility, couple responsibility and emotional intelligence.
The perfect couple
There aren’t any perfect couples so stop considering that you and him are one of these couples. There are only real couples, which fight, reconcile, break-up and reconcile again.
It’s more thrilling like this, isn’t it? The essential is to get to know yourself, to know your limits but especially the manner to make yourself accepted and also accept the other.
Week-ends spent in the same way, dinner in front of the TV, boredom, making compromises. Do these things sound you familiar?
Be careful! Don’t confound routine with the stay-at-home comfort. Happy couples always try to do little changes in their lives, occasionally some sweet surprises to their partner.
Life in couple is just a long list of compromises, but frustrations don’t have to settle down in your life. You should try to understand your partner’s problems, worries or moments when he/she wants to be alone. A positive attitude will help you both pass by all the difficulties that occur in life.
It seems almost impossible to love the same person all your life, especially nowadays, but you must share the pleasure of living one for/with the other.
It is not an utopia, I can guarantee you!