How to make a long distance relationship last
When it comes to a long distance relationship, most of people have a kind of reticence. Anyway, when attraction and feelings are powerful enough, nothing can stop you from saying “yes”. Let’s see some tips which will make the situation seem easier.
Establish your relationship
It may sound incredible, but there are people to whom bigamy is acceptable. In order not to have a surprise when you find out he is seeing someone else too, you should tell each other from the beginning your expectations and what you have to offer.
Don’t keep secrets
Sincerity is compulsory in any relationship, especially when there is such a distance between partners. It is important to reveal your fears regarding your future. Tell him what bothers you and your partner will become more sensitive to your needs.
Routine is good in a long distance relationship as it make you wait impatiently his next visit or call. Anyway, you should also try to surprise each other now and then with a gift or a visit.
Communication makes a relationship last. Speaking daily, revealing your thoughts, even the smallest details from your life make the relationship stronger. Taking into consideration the technology nowadays you have no excuse for not talking daily.
Plan often visits
Specialists recommend at least a weekend/month. And as at your first date you plan the next one, do the same think in this case too. Don’t say good bye before setting the next meeting.
Trust each other
A relationship without trust won’t last. If your partner says it will call at a certain hour and he doesn’t, don’t panic. Unpredictable situations appear and jealousy isn’t the best solution.
Go out with friends
Even if your partner isn’t next to you, go out with friends, have fun. You are doing nothing wrong.
Establish a deadline
Long distance relationship is ok but not forever. So make plans together and establish approximately the moment you will move together in the same city or even in the same house. In this way, you will know where you are heading.