How to start a new relationship right
There is nothing more exciting than starting a new relationship. It brings hope for new beautiful things which may happen and a bit of mystery. No matter how excited you are for your new boyfriend you should take it easy and follow some rules.
If you have just met a guy and you want to have a perfect start respect the following rules in order to start better the relationship.
Meet often but not too often
When you are in love, you want to see your new lover as often as possible. It is normal because you are happy and proud you have him. But in order not to get bored, try not to exaggerate with dates. If you meet too often you will change your lives too sudden. You’d better see each other once or twice/ week. In this way you will keep love and enthusiasm to a high level.
Don’t be too insistent
If you are lovers it doesn’t mean you own each other. It you want a healthy relationship give him space. You don’t have to know from the beginning what he does each moment he is not with you. At the beginning you are a little part of his life.
Don’t buy him too many gifts
You are in love and you think all the time at him? It is all right but it doesn’t mean you should buy him gifts all the time. When your relationship will be more serious you will have enough time to buy him gifts. If you want to show him you love him buy little cheap thins in the beginning and later more expensive gifts.
Don’t be possessive
Possessiveness is not good for relationships. It is a sign of uncertainty and jealousy. Don’t forget that you are at the beginning of the relationship and you can’t tell him what to do. No matter how jealous you are you can’t tell him not to see other people or not to go to parties. Possessiveness can end a relationship before it even started.
Don’t tell him too quickly you love him
No matter you have a new boyfriend and you are excited with this situation it doesn’t mean you should tell him the three magic words immediately. You will make him feel obliged to answer to you and maybe he doesn’t feel the same yet. Learn to be patient.
So, in order to start a relationship well you should have patience to know him, take it easy and don’t overwhelm him with your presence. Each relationship is fragile in the beginning.