Signs that he wants to leave you

Unfortunately many relationships finish all of a sudden without being aware of it. It is surely more painful when you are taken by surprise and you don’t have time to understand what it is happening. As nobody likes to be taken of guard, here are some signs that a relationship is ending.

You spend less time together day by day. He is very busy and the new video game seems to be more interesting than you, lately. Even if you live in the same house you both feel more and more alone and frustrated.

When you try to discuss with him about your future plans he avoids the discussion or changes the subject. Isn’t it weird that a few months ago he was asking you to build a future with him and now he doesn’t talk about this anymore?

He listens to what you are saying but his thoughts are far away. Unfortunately, what you are saying is not interesting and amusing anymore.

You fight for nothing, even the smallest subject can lead to a quarrel and this time the reconciliation doesn’t come so fast. It could be a manner of saying good-bye by hoping that some of these quarrels will finally lead to a break-up.

His meetings with his friends take place more and more often. If you use to go out often together with other couples, now he avoids these kind of gatherings.

If he used to accept your defects without mentioning them to you, now he speaks with his mind saying things you never thought he would say.

The house you live in becomes less capacious for him and his hobbies. He suddenly needs more space for himself as the need for space usually leads to a need of liberty. The next step will surely be the break-up.

He decides all of a sudden to go on vacation, far away from the routine, and, unfortunately, far away from you.

Although a break-up means a lot of tears and compunctions, you’d endure it better if you expect it than if it comes as a shock to you.