Things you shouldn’t tell your boyfriend
Although you have an opened relationship with your boyfriend you shouldn’t tell him anything that crosses your mind. Sometimes, a simple comment which seems totally harmless could become annoying or irritating for your partner.
“My ex-boyfriend did the same”
No matter if it’s a positive similarity or not, no man will ever want to find out that he looks like your ex- boyfriend. He might think you still have feelings for your ex and the fact of being permanently compared with the other isn’t at all pleasant.
“Susan is pregnant, but don’t tell this to anyone”
Don’t burden your boyfriend with the secret of other person. If he will commit an indiscretion regarding this secret your friend will be very annoyed. On the other side, you will appear as a person who doesn’t know how to keep a secret, and this could be applied to your relationship also.
“When we will get married / when we will have children”
It is a normal thing to fantasize regarding the happiness brought by marriage and about the three kids you will have together. Some women bring this into discussion even from the beginning of their relationship. If you don’t want to frighten your partner, you should keep these thoughts for yourself at least at the beginning of the relationship.
Do you think she is nice?
When you put this kind of question your boyfriend knows that he won’t have the right answer. If he will say “yes” you will feel jealous and get annoyed on him. Usually, women continue the discussion by asking “Is she nicer than me?” question which will make things bad.
If he says “no” (if the person is really attractive”), you will accuse him of being a liar. You will ask yourself what other things he is hiding from you, even if you assure him you won’t get annoyed if he says “yes”.
“I am fine” or “it doesn’t matter”
Your face speaks for itself and also the fact that you haven’t said a thing in the last three hours. When he asks you what is wrong you will say nothing. This answer will make him very nervous. This isn’t indicated as you should communicate the things that bother you. You also block all your frustrations and in time they will emerge causing other problems.
“I will try this at least once”
Don’t give hope to your partner when you aren’t sure you will do the things you promised.
“Are you sure you are ok?”
This question asked repeatedly will become very annoying. I know you want to find out what happened and they think is their fault for their boyfriend state of mind but, usually, there isn’t any specific reason.
Men can also have bad days, being nervous, tired. As hard as it may seem, women should stop trying to solve this situation. Give your partner the space he needs.
“I hate my thighs!”
If he wouldn’t think you are attractive, he wouldn’t be with you Saying this you will look unconfident in yourself, and men hate this. As women do, men are attracted by women who are very confident in the way they look. Would you love living next to a man who talks all day about how much he hates his thighs?
Beside this, you will attract his attention on this fact he didn’t notice until then.