Tips for becoming an expert in online dating
Because you want to end up the solitude you feel day by day you registered on an online dating site? While searching for different profiles you found an interesting one which you would like to approach without being too audacious? Don’t worry, you can cut a good figure from the beginning by taking into consideration the following tips:
Create your profile carefully
Finding the best user name is essential. It’s the first thing which will be noticed so it has to be smart and relevant for your personality. A word or two are enough.
Choosing the sexiest photo you have is not a very good idea as you will seem too “available”. The perfect photo is a profile one, while smiling or doing some interesting activity. It shouldn’t be older than one year so that you will recognize yourselves if you ever go out on a date. Religion, workplace or incomes shouldn’t be mentioned in your profile.
No matter if you want to have fun, meet new people or find your soul-mate you should not scare the people who visits your profile by giving the impression that you are desperate. You may say “I am looking for a partner but I’m also interested in starting a family.”
Never give your personal address no matter if the person looks reliable. Don’t give any information where he/she can find you as you don’t really know what kind of person you are dealing with.
There is no perfect manner of approach
When you want to approach the person you want to date online your main objective is to create a good impression without exaggerating your qualities or underlining your defects. You should know that there is no perfect approach or clear rules regarding the manner of conceiving your text so relax and be natural.
Don’t write a too long message
It is important to write a warm, friendly message, not very long or too elaborated. You shouldn’t be taken as a boring person.
Start writing the message in a friendly style, by saying “hello” and by writing your first name. Don’t be too informal, just be friendly.
Maintain a positive attitude and focus on the information mentioned in your profile
It is important your message to be optimistic and joyful. Don’t start by saying “I’m alone and I want to find someone I can marry with”. Leave the negative parts for the following meetings, when you get to know each other better. It’s advisable to forget the sad facts from in your life and focus more on your profile on the online dating site. Focus on the interesting things you’ve done over the time or on your hobbies.
Mention the things you two have in common
After mentioning some interesting aspects you were attracted by in her/his profile, focus on the things you have in common: passions, dreams, signs of the zodiac. Always ask questions to which the answer can be expanded as it will create the appropriate environment for long debates.
For example “I’ve noticed from your profile that you like skiing. Which city/country you usually choose in order to practice this sport? Which were you most memorable experiences? or “I’ve noticed you like to go to the theater. Which is your favorite play?”
Emphasizing the things you have in common will make your online date feel good because of finally finding someone who is interested by his/her hobbies.
Once you‘ve read these tips just be confident and have the courage to start looking for your partner. More than 20% of the people who started dating online finished by marring their online partner. So…good luck!